Happy Valentines Day! ........it's been a great evening my friend Tjnya and I went out for a bite to eat, but not where everyone else went we headed to the Village Inn think only one person, maybe two were actually working there tonight the food was cold, but the coffee and company were great! it's been a very long time since Tjnya and i got together Tjnya is my best friend here in abq she was there when i got psychotic and came to my rescue she got me help and stood by me throughout my whole ordeal the past few years we haven't been in contact a whole lot in her own way, she's a bit of a recluse in the middle of the city but so am i we're both a little bit country and like to stay at home in december, i found out she had moved only across the street so to speak since then we have been in more contact although we haven't seen or talked to one another for sometime, our love for one another in friendship has not faded no matter whatever may happen to each of us, the other will always be there ......tonight we chatted and laughed like we hadn't in a looong time we talked about her 'boyfriend' soon to be thrown to the curb i tild her it sounded like she was in a boring relationship it wouldn't be enough for me she said she's just going to let it fade so we'll see what happens we both keep meeting the wrong men, lol o well, we know all in due time, mr right will come our way she has her own sense of humor about things opposite of the dramatic just plain down to earth that this is the way it is, and this is the way it is not with a cool, calm collectedness about her just a matter of fact she's raised her 2 sons on her own , they leaving the nest this last year they were like my own kids being around her i didn't ever have kids of my own by choice she's done a pretty good job .....anyways, it was great to laugh like that again it's been awhile we talked about our pets we've had in our times and what they do like i got my valentine kisses this morn from 3 of my dogs it was my morning wake up call she told me about a cat she once had that would suck on her ear while she slept i cracked up because i used to have a cat that sucked on my neck Tjnya is not as 'close' to her pets as i am with mine i allow mine to do just about anything to me, but not Tjnya but alot of people don't allow pets to do everything with them pets are just being themselves, it's how we respond to them that makes a difference so i get the biggest laugh when i here people describe their discomfort when a pet does something i just find the human reaction hilarious my pets are my kids and i treat them as such they still write pages and chapters in that book 'murder she wrote', but not as much as they have in the past i talk to them, but you know they don't listen they do whatever they're going to do anyways and wear that big smile anyways they're good dogs, frustration is only a natural part of living with them i love them dearly and wouldn't trade them for anything or anyone they make me laugh with their play and dumb things they do and the best part, they love me no matter what now if i could only find a man that could do the same thing, LOL .......anyways, having friends like Tjnya and my kids (dogs) makes my life worthwhile Gina and Stephanie are great friends too! what a great way to spend Valentine's Day when you don't have a date, but a date with a friend!
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