i'm a bit in knots this morn not too bad, but still...at least i woke to the fact that my Jimmy ate all his food last nite he's been randomly eating and sparsely at that since Sadie's been gone hopefully he's over his grieving period they were together for 5yrs, the total time i've had them both anyways, i'm happy he's doing better
as for me, i'm stumped my nephew is eating and drinking me out of house & home i think i've plenty of food only to wake up yesterday morn to all of it gone except chicken he said he "didn't eat much" and initially he didn't but nowadays it's like there's no tomorrow...lol new plan on how to keep food & money available so i don't go hungry
now, my neighbor is bugging me i've come to learn what he thinks our relationship is and know it is NOT he apparently thinks i'm his bank or something every payday he comes wanting to borrow money he literally expects me to give him some money all the time now how this came to be i don't know granted i had do some small projects for me and paid him i also loaned him a 20 a couple times, BUT i never intended for him to believe as he does he believes this because this is who he is it's my impression he doesn't deal with life very well he also drinks too much and i don't know how often he does his drugs anyways, i've talked to him twice already about the money situation informing him i am Not his bank only for him to show up at my door last nite stating something about money this weekend (another payday for me) he just doesn't get it so my only option at the moment is to continually say NO to him until he gets it , if he ever does all this for being neighborly NO THANK YOU! my nephew wants to put his foot up his a$$ i may let him one day i've come to learn tho that there are people who for whatever reason(s) just go 'bad' in life no matter what kind of background they have it doesn't mean they've necessarily had a bad childhood for i have seen his parents home and they are well off, not rich but well to do...anyways, i will be working on changing this relationship it'll take awhile it may take me moving out of here within the next 2 yrs which i still have in mind to move to my mountains or closer to them i've been thinking about that a lot lately...anyways, in time something will change
now for today, i'm having coffee for breakfast and some toast curled up with Potter again then it's my nephew's job interview and coffee with Rev Jennie finally i will tackle the house as well....